Dear Becca,
(I love your avatar – too cute!)
Your questions answered:
1. By grey boxes around everything – I assume you mean the images?   To remove these, go to Appearance>>Edit, and find the Style.css- should be listed at the bottom of the right-hand side.
- scan through that file until you find:
a img {border: 3px solid grey; [...]

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